Darlin’, I believe in love
Since I met you, baby
I believe in love
The way you hold me
My heart is stirred
You can control me
Without a word.
Astrologers will be expecting a Bohemian Rhapsody of tantalizing love and communication when they anticipate the Aquarius–Aquarius relationship, but will that actually transpire? Is this a good zodiac match for the long term, and what else can we decipher?
In Aquarians we have fixed air, so communication will obviously be a powerful element of the initial attraction. They are bound to find each other while pursuing political, humanitarian, or social causes because these are things that really inspire Aquarius. They are, however, fairly shy, so I’m wondering if two Aquarius are immediately going to strike up a conversation. Sometimes Aquarius lacks initiative in love; they really need someone else to make the first move. So I think the Aquarians will have to explore their love relationship after they have already established a rapport as colleagues, campaigners, activists, or artists.
Although Aquarius has a reputation for being rebellious, eccentric, and somewhat unconventional – because of the rulership of Uranus, the planet associated with scientific thinking and breakthroughs – their co-ruler is stable Saturn, and as a fixed sign they are seeking a solid relationship.
Aquarius can feel vulnerable emotionally; they often feel misunderstood, so what they seek in a relationship is a partner who they can truly express their inner thoughts to and have a satisfying and intense relationship with. So a relationship between two Aquarians doesn’t have to be a roller coaster, it can actually be something quite cozy, romantic, and very fulfilling at a deep level.
Aquarius is an air sign ruled by Uranus, so vibrant communication, discovery, and mental adventure is absolutely essential to their relationship as sun sign twins.
This is a couple who will either want no children or who will probably want six, because they are quite edgy in their lifestyle choices.
This zodiac match has a 70% chance of being successful.
Romantic Compatibility
Aquarius are romantic, they believe in love; they want their love relationship to be a unique adventure, and they often fall in love at first sight. With Aquarius, the first cut is the deepest, so they rarely forget their first love. Two Aquarians may meet in childhood and form a lifelong attachment, or they may meet, separate, and come back together later in life after hooking up on social media to follow a love lost. Aquarius tend to be concerned about the ‘one that got away’; they have strong and powerful instincts in love.
Aquarius may be a very rational and logical star sign, but they are hot-blooded when it comes to love. They want to give of their all and truly have a deep and wonderful relationship. While two Aquarians together can fulfil each other’s need for intellectual curiosity and change, there’s also something deep, warm, and passionate within each that creates a relationship that can be quite luxurious.
Aquarius have a reputation for sometimes being cold or aloof, but when they’re together they can be fiery hot, and they can strangely be quite possessive of each other, which can create an intoxicating mix that’s paradoxically romantic.
Sexual Compatibility
For Aquarius, the sexual arena is one that’s very important. They want to have a sexually fulfilling relationship, and it’s a chance for them to release tension because they can be quite a highly strung zodiac sign. Now, Aquarians are very idealistic, so sometimes their expectations for their sex life, and for romance in general, can be a little bit high, meaning one of the problems when we have two Aquarius together is actually living up to the hype.
The big deal in terms of their sex life is both are sexually curious. They want to explore, they’re willing to work hard, and they have a rather investigative approach to sex. With two Aquarians, sex may not be magical or great the first time round, but they want to work on it, they want to know how to make it better, and sometimes they even want to fix the relationship through the sexual arena.
Aquarius don’t see sex as merely a chance to have some fun, blow off steam, and continue the romance; they also see it as a bit of a challenge — somewhere they can explore, be creative, and find out new things about the other. So their sex life is even better if it helps them open up, and very often the pillow talk afterwards, or the lessons they learn through improving their sex life, can actually be very important to the evolution of the relationship.
Friendship Between Two Aquarius
Two Aquarius usually make good friends and comrades, but they prefer doing something purposeful and working together. Now, what’s interesting about these two as friends is that while Aquarius are social people, they favour a light tough sociality; they like to mingle with loads of different cliques, and they have an eclectic group of friends but, even in a crowd they can still feel lonely. Aquarius tend to be misunderstood and often they are the black sheep of their families or someone who struggles to find people that they can totally relate to, and that’s why they’re outwardly friendly, yet they never really open up about their true feelings.
So one of the beauties of two Aquarians in a friendship is they may finally be able to explore the full extent of their character fearlessly. They are both tolerant, open-minded people, and as long as they have enough dedication in terms of putting effort into the friendship, there’s no doubt that they will begin to really relax, thrive, and feel truly understood.
These are not friends that always have a huge amount of empathy with each other. They can be a little cool at times, and they’re not necessarily friends who will cry on each other’s shoulder. But that said, they’re solid, supportive, and they don’t tend to be competitive or jealous of each other, which is a big deal.
Marriage and Long-Term Potential
With two Aquarius in a love match, they either attract or repel quite quickly, and therefore, if they have passed the dating phase and they’re still keen on each other, then this cosmic relationship will definitely progress towards some form of commitment. But will it be marriage?
With a combination of two Aquarius, it’s more likely to be some other form of cohabiting, or a happy relationship where they both are eager to carry on living in their own places where they have space to do their own thing. Aquarians can be a little bit eccentric; they have very specific likes and needs, which means they do struggle to fit in with any other star sign, so sometimes it suits them to maintain their own lifestyle, have their own space, but just come together to enjoy life.
They are capable of developing long-lasting attachment even in situations that would be seen as non-traditional. What’s positive in a relationship between Aquarians is there’s a great deal of desire, camaraderie, and a need for consistency. They may not want to live in each other’s pockets or follow each other’s whims, but when they come together it’s meaningful, and they are able to feel totally at home and accepted, and that’s what makes this a good star sign combination.
There are cases where two Aquarians can have a platonic friendship for many years that eventually becomes a romance, or even an open relationship can sometimes work, but they will remain fairly committed, even in an open style of relationship.
Strengths and Challenges of the Relationship
Companionship, a shared quest for personal development and truth, and a great deal of honesty propel this relationship foreword. They are a zodiac sign which is idealistic about love and they are likely to want to believe the best in each other and give each other a chance. If it’s not going to work, it’ll never get off the ground, but once it gets past first base, they’re going all the way. It’s a home run.
Two Aquarius will want to form a committed connection and they will establish attachment as they are a very loyal sign. They can sometimes be slightly jealous or possessive, and while they are seen as a very independent star sign, once they’re in love they need to see strong displays of affection. So it’s very important for both of them to show affection and appreciation. If they neglect to do this and they make assumptions that the other knows how they feel, it’s going to get tricky. It’s always important for them to say the words, “I love you.”
Aquarians together feel they are finally understood and totally accepted. They don’t feel that they have to keep up a pretence, and that’s one of the great barriers that keeps most relationships from developing. Once they pass first base, they are willing to open up.
The keys in this cosmic relationship are first friendship, then sex, and then the gateway to emotional understanding begins. So once they’ve established they like each other and they’re firm friends, they need to start working on the sexual side of the relationship, because once they’ve cracked that case they will really be able to reveal secrets and feel totally understood, and the relationship goes from strength to strength.
They will experience friction. Two Aquarians have a side to their nature that can be controversial, and they often like to stir the pot. Aquarius are known as disruptors, so when there’s too much harmony they have the subconscious desire to either do or say something that’s going to shake things up. They have a need to test their partner, and they have to be careful doing this, because it can make the relationship more of a roller coaster than it really needs to be.
Sometimes they underestimate each other’s needs. This zodiac sign can be more vulnerable than they let off. Being co-ruled by Saturn, they can present a fairly stoic facade, but they both have a tender heart, and it’s very important that they are caring and show each other kindness and affection. This aspect of love can be neglected, but it’s vital, and if neglected the relationship can feel a bit lonely.
Aquarius don’t need masses of attention, but they often don’t realise how quickly they can begin to feel abandoned if a partner is being aloof or cold. So a downside to this relationship is Aquarius often needs space, breathing room, and they enjoy thinking time, thus they sometimes can focus inward rather than catering to a partner. However, when they’re together in a relationship with another Aquarius, they don’t always understand that insecurity in each other. So it’s vital that they both give each other space while always remembering, after that space, to reaffirm the affection and kindness just to make sure that they’re both feeling nurtured.
Final Verdict
What’s great about this zodiac relationship is it is a relationship for all seasons, and it can suit many different sorts of couples. As Aquarians have a very liberal attitude to life, they’re not necessarily looking for a conventional relationship, but at the same time never underestimate the Aquarian need for affection, romance, and love. They actually are people with big hearts who will finally feel understood together.
Aquarians have a reputation for independence, but at heart they are people who are seeking romance, affection, and a stable relationship where they can feel totally accepted and nurtured.
This star sign match is like a plant, it needs continual attention. As Aquarians they will often do their own thing and want to have their own space, but the relationship can be strong and successful if they treat it like a plant and water it, feed it, and give it adequate sunlight every day. When it comes to Aquarius, the feeding is kindness, the watering is emotional nourishment, and the sunlight is warmth. So whatever is going on in the relationship, if they can remember to apply those three things each day, then this relationship can deliver a long-lasting, powerful, and happy union where neither are stifled and where each can fulfil themselves.
This relationship is even better when one has an earth Moon or ascendant, and it can also be powerful if one has a water Moon and ascendant. The worst thing that can happen in this relationship is complacency and forgetting those three important elements that will help the relationship grow stronger and stronger.
Any star sign match is, of course, modified greatly by the Ascendant, Moon, and Venus signs — which will give more bearing on affectionate, sexual, and spiritual compatibility.
