Aquarius Compatibility

Aquarius is a fascinating Sun sign to unpack, as there are a medley of different elements to their personality. They are, of course, an air sign, which is confusing because Aquarius is also the Water Bearer, so some people can be a little bit misled by that. As an air sign, they have an intellectual, rational approach to life, enjoy sharing information with others, and can be quite sociable. They are also a fixed sign, which indicates they want a certain amount of stability, continuity, and certainty in life, and they’re looking for stable relationships and to form strong bonds with people. 

Now, their ruler is Uranus, which is a planet that represents science, technology, and rebellion. It’s also a sign that can be fairly quirky, eccentric, and full of surprises. Your Aquarius is a rebel; who likes to do things in their own inimitable style. They have a powerfully independent nature, want to think for themselves and live according to their own rules. However, the co-ruler of Aquarius is Saturn, which reinforces the fixed element of their personality, which is why sometimes their more rebellious, aloof, and evasive characteristics can fool people into thinking that they are commitment-phobic or maybe not interested in relationships. At heart, they really do want something reliable and steadfast underpinning their life. 

In astrology, compatibility is all about how signs interact with each other, the positive and negative traits that they stimulate in each other, whether there’s a high level of communication, cohesion in terms of love language, or whether it’s just all about chemistry and sparks flying with a lot of bridges to be built in between. 

Aquarius gets on very well with the other air signs, like Gemini, Libra, and fellow Aquarius in terms of friendship. They find these relationships rather natural; they enjoy exchanging communication, but somehow Aquarius doesn’t really form strong bonds or relationships with the air signs. This is because there’s not enough understanding, at an emotional level, of Aquarius’s true character, and they form a better match for friends, colleagues, or even friends-with-benefits relationships. There’s just not enough spice or flavor to make Aquarius willing to fully open up to fellow air signs. 

Now, although Aquarius can have far more contentious and topsy-turvy relationships with the fixed signs, it is the fixed signs that they tend to fall deeply in love with, even obsessively. Aquarius is capable of falling deeply and truly in love, and there’s an old saying in astrology that with Aquarius, the first cut is the deepest; the first love is the one they may never get over. So, Aquarius is capable of falling in love at first sight and finding a soulmate, and yet their relationships are often very complicated, particularly with fixed signs. 

As always, astrology compatibility is a complex art of interpreting different elements. The Sun sign is the beginning, but what’s also important is moon signs to understand family values and emotional compatibility, the interplay of Venus signs to understand how the couple shows and expresses affection and values each other, and Mars signs for the energy and excitement that drives the sexual side of the relationship. The ascendant is also important to see whether each horoscope chart is attracted to the personality and looks of the other. 

Aquarius Traits in Love and Relationships 

Aquarius primarily identifies with their need to be among people, to share ideas, and to be involved in causes. They like group endeavors, and they are people who are very interested in other people, often talking a lot to both strangers and friends, and they are likely to have a wide circle of acquaintances. 

However Aquarius finds it much more difficult to develop strong bonds of friendship and love. In a way, they are socially awkward. So although they like being among people and talking, they can always feel like they are the odd one out -perhaps the black sheep of a family – not fully accepted as part of any cliques. Aquarius tend to be quirky, original, and unique, and so they can be quite niche. They may not be everybody’s cup of tea, and sometimes they struggle to find a place where they fit in. 

Aquarius has powerful emotional needs; they need to feel accepted and loved unconditionally. So they are looking for a partner with whom they can have a deep, exclusive bond that will be strong on communication, friendship, and also passion. 

In dating, Aquarius must have strong displays of emotion. They like creative, charismatic, and flamboyant partners who can wow them in terms of personality but who are also serious about love and keen to be in a strong relationship. 

The weakness for Aquarius is that they are sometimes hard to understand. They can be very aloof and detached because often they just need to be “up in their head”, to be alone with their own thoughts, and detach from the world, and sometimes partners don’t understand that. Their strength in a relationship is that they are unique and exciting and create a relationship that can be both evolving but also secure. They provide an extremely communicative, helpful companion and someone who has a lot of sexual creativity. 

Most Compatible Zodiac Signs with Aquarius 

Aquarius and Leo 

This is a highly competitive but compatible match. They are at a polarity, being opposite each other in the zodiac. They have many points of similarity and areas of complimentary cohesion. 

Leo is bold, positive, and confident, which is a wonderful antidote for the fact that sometimes Aquarius’s self-esteem can be a little lacking making them introverted, despite being a masculine sign.

Leo’s self directed, vibrant nature can be the fire that helps Aquarius really find themselves and discover new things in life. Leos tend to be powerful supporters and encouragers, which Aquarius really appreciates. 

Leo loves things that are unique and original, and Leo has a great appetite for theatrics. What Leo sees in Aquarius is a rebel and a maverick, that’s exciting for Leo. Leo feels that this relationship can live up to the top billing. 

Together, they can experience conflict because they both have very masculine energies; they can be both egotistical, stubborn, and pig-headed. However, they are deeply committed to each other and should both find the relationship rewarding in terms of emotional fulfillment and chemistry. They could even be soulmates. 

Aquarius and Taurus 

This is a great cosmic match because Taurus has diplomacy, a love of harmony and a very reassuring, loving vibe which is great for Aquarius. These two are likely to strike up a friendship, and this friendship may be something that was cultivated in youth and perhaps this couple could meet again later in life when they can pick up that friendship and take it forward to romance. 

Aquarius enjoys the Taurus personality; they are very communicative, quite rational, and reasonable, but they have a penchant for drama because they can lose their temper. Aquarius likes to see that passionate side; they like to know that someone has a little bit of fire in their belly. Taurus certainly has that, along with their more easygoing charm. 

They communicate rather well because both of them are naturally social. Taurus is more at ease socially, and that helps reassure Aquarius. What Taurus likes about Aquarius is that they see someone who is going to take them out of their comfort zones. Taurus is aware that they can be a little rooted and perhaps passive, but somehow with Aquarius, they feel, “Well, this is a person I can have adventures with without really leaving my comfort zone.” 

Taurus feels that it’s a good partnership with a lot of commonality to work with, but they’re not in competition with each other, so there’s no need for jealousy. 

Aquarius and Scorpio 

This is a roller-coaster match. They’re attracted to each other in a way that is both enchanting and infuriating. There are many times when they will experience deep anger toward each other,and other times when they come together passionately and love each other’s company.

This can be an extremely transformative, dynamic, and involving relationship. It’s not necessarily easy, but both these Sun signs like a challenge. What they have in common is that both are rebellious and unique, and sometimes both of them feel misunderstood or may have had experiences in their lives that made them feel like an outsider. They have that “outsider complex” in common, which they share and can revel in. Often, as a couple, it can be a “you and me against the world” dynamic. 

One of the challenges is that both of them are very set in their ways, and can be extremely stubborn and unyielding, and that is a bit of a stumbling block. However, they do provide each other with a lot of certainty, and even if they do have heated exchanges, there’s usually a lot of honesty and dynamic self expression in the relationship. Most relationships thrive with honesty. 

Aquarius and Gemini 

This is a match off to a good start because both signs are air signs. Additionally, the ruler of Gemini, Mercury, is exalted in Aquarius, and therefore there is a meeting of the minds. 

This is a relationship based on friendship, camaraderie, and having a flexible life together. This really suits couples who may have met online, who are very busy with careers, and who are perhaps less interested in having a family life. It’s also suitable for same-sex couples or long-distance relationships. 

What this relationship can lack, however, is a little bit of intensity. It’s almost a better match for the Gemini because the fixed nature of Aquarius is very reassuring. Gemini likes the stability and the open-minded tolerance of Aquarius. 

However, Aquarius can sometimes be a little unsure about whether the Gemini truly loves them, so there’s often not the degree of acceptance and nurturing that Aquarius wants. However Gemini is versatile; they do have an emotional side, which in a stable relationship becomes more prevalent, especially with age. So there’s no reason why, with time, this can’t be a relationship with a high level of emotional trust and sharing. 

Least Compatible Signs with Aquarius 

Aquarius and Virgo 

Even though the ruler of Virgo, Mercury, is exalted in Aquarius, this remains a rather difficult match. They can generate too much coolness, avoidance, and tension within this particular combination. These are both signs that have a serious side and who also can be extremely modest and self-effacing, so they don’t necessarily bring each other out of their shell.

Both are also Zodiac signs who are sociable, enjoy people, and love communicating, but have their guard up. They have big barriers and both are very cautious about revealing their true selves to other people, including each other. 

Considering their high barriers and emotional avoidance, it may be difficult for these two to get into a relationship. Sometimes there’s a high level of sexual chemistry between these star signs, and that can draw them together in a sexual relationship. Sex can actually be the gateway to forming a stronger partnership, but often without that sexual connection initially, this relationship doesn’t get off the ground. 

Aquarius and Cancer 

Cancer is a water sign, Aquarius is an air sign, and they can have a successful relationship, but it is a match that has a lot of bridges that need to be built. This can be a very good match for two people who work in the medical industry; for example, nurses, doctors, paramedics, or people who work irregular or unsocial hours, and have a relationship where they are not sharing the nine-to-five routine, because it really suits that kind of relationship. 

This is a match that can actually be thrust together by fate. They could even be soulmates. They often have an important mission that they can achieve together, but compatibility is tenuous. They often struggle to communicate and understand each other’s love languages. 

It’s important for both to open up and be really clear on what they need emotionally. In many cases, they are inclined to shut down rather than open up, and this means communication is constantly hampered, and they struggle to understand what each other wants. 

Aquarius and Aquarius 

Now, this is a match that I do see in real life. It’s not always the easiest of matches, however, because we have a double dose of Saturn and a double dose of Uranus. There are many factors that cause them to repel each other. They are often at odds and may bicker and argue constantly. 

This is also a match that can sometimes get bogged down and begin to exhibit detrimental knee-jerk reactions to certain things. 

When two Aquarians with a lot of Earth or Sagittarius in them come together, this can be a great match because they will be prepared to nurture, protect, and encourage each other. In other cases, they can be a little competitive with each other, and they may not always fully acknowledge and support each other.

This is also a couple that will tend not to want children, so it can be a problem if they meet up and one of them already has children. 

At times when one needs support, the other one can feel emotionally anxious and want to step away, and sometimes when one is loving, the other is feeling the need to be unavailable. So, there are often timing factors where it’s hard for both to feel in the right mood and be in the right frame of mind at the same time. 

However, it can also be a quirky, exciting match where they support each other as staunch allies and feel beautifully understood. 

Aquarius’s Compatibility with the Other 12 Signs 

Aquarius and Aries – Medium to High Compatibility 

This can be an exciting cosmic match. Communication tends to be great. Aries has a high desire to learn, and Aquarius is inspired by Aries’ powerful nature. Both are positive signs who are highly sociable, making this a good match initially. Over time, however, Aquarius may want more certainty, while Aries may be baffled about how to gain greater intensity from Aquarius, leading to mixed signals. 

Aries can be impatient and may not try to truly understand Aquarius or their interests. Aquarius can feel that Aries are too brusque and jump to conclusions. Aries can become frustrated by Aquarius’ occasionally high handed, superior attitude, and they tend to resent Aquarius being a little dismissive of their ideas. 

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Aquarius and Taurus – High Compatibility 

This cosmic combination has a high rate of success. These signs are naturally curious about each other. The relationship tends to develop immediately into a firm friendship, which leads to sexual attraction over time. This astrology relationship can have its issues, as they can both be set in their ways and insist on having the last word, but there’s always a desire to keep it going. Together, they find the relationship satisfying, rewarding, and hard to match elsewhere. 

As these signs tend to have totally different values, they are likely to clash on issues of politics or family values, but they are always ready to build bridges and the relationship is very compelling, keeping them both in it even when they feel a bit angry with each other. It’s an exciting match. 

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Aquarius and Gemini – Moderate to High Compatibility

These are two smart, bright, intellectual signs who are bound to communicate well and establish a quick rapport and basis of friendship. There can be some romance because Aquarius loves the quirky, fast-changing personality and moods of the Gemini, and Gemini like the fact that Aquarius is open-minded and a little bit bohemian. 

However, they don’t always make an effort to truly get to know each other at a deep level. Sometimes Aquarius becomes aloof, and Gemini cool, and when both of them are angry, they can detach and avoid. This is where the relationship runs into trouble and they can find it difficult to get back on track, which is why this doesn’t necessarily have the grit to survive. 

With helpful moon sign connections, these can be twin flames. 

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Aquarius and Cancer – Moderate to Low Compatibility 

This combination can be drawn to each other. There’s chemical attraction and curiosity, making them likely to give dating a try. They may find the relationship rewarding sexually, but communication can be difficult, as Aquarius can be aloof and emotionally unavailable. Cancer’s tendency to be moody and sulk can be confusing for Aquarius. If both make an effort to be honest and emotionally intelligent, the relationship can work, but there are hurdles to overcome, and they need to understand each other psychologically. 

This pair have their differences and need their space from each other, but when they come together, it can often be very transformative. 

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Aquarius and Leo – High Compatibility 

An inspirational partnership, this is intriguing and very productive in terms of strong communication and a magnetic draw. These two can even be soulmates. They inspire a higher level of awareness in each other. 

They have different skills that they bring to the table, and therefore they are eager to learn from each other. Often, there are arguments and clashes because of different ways of seeing the world, but over time they realize that they actually have a lot more in common than they think. The relationship is one that neither wants to give up on, and it can also be sexually rewarding in bed. This pair can do well in age-gap, cross-cultural, and long-distance relationships. 

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Aquarius and Virgo – Moderate to Low Compatibility 

This match certainly has a sense of intrigue to it. The star signs don’t totally understand each other, but they certainly find that there is plenty to talk about, and there may even be a kind of

chemistry going on which means that although they are chalk and cheese, they really want to get to know each other. 

However, what Aquarius may feel is that Virgo lacks drive and ambition and perhaps a lot of confidence, which Aquarius finds fairly attractive. It could be that Virgo is just a little bit too modest and unassuming. Virgo can feel that Aquarius is too up in their head and detached, and they don’t really understand them. So Virgo might not feel fully seen or understood, and may not think Aquarius is making an effort. 

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Aquarius and Libra – Moderate to High Compatibility 

This is one of the most harmonious air sign pairings. Libra and Aquarius share a strong intellectual connection and a mutual appreciation for freedom, creativity, and individuality. They are both forward-thinking, love to discuss ideas, and value relationships that allow emotional and mental independence. 

Libra brings warmth, diplomacy, and charm to the relationship, while Aquarius brings originality, inventiveness, and a sense of purpose. They understand each other’s need for space and rarely fall into the traps of jealousy or emotional manipulation. Both signs are social and enjoy being part of a community, often sharing similar humanitarian values. 

The only potential problem is that Aquarius can be detached or unpredictable at times, which may unsettle Libra’s desire for consistency and reassurance. However, when Libra learns to trust Aquarius’s loyalty and Aquarius respects Libra’s need for balance, this partnership flourishes. Together, they form a relationship filled with respect, understanding, and shared ideals, a true meeting of minds and hearts. 

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Aquarius and Scorpio – High Compatibility 

This is a couple who’ll certainly notice each other immediately. The initial reactions between them may not be ones of love or romance, in fact, they may be annoyed with each other. They could be people who argue or have extremely different views on things that mark them out as being on different sides of a divide. However, there is a magnetic attraction, a need to know each other better. Despite the fact that there will often be obstacles to the relationship, they will both really want to persist, and a strong friendship and sexual bond can develop. 

They often have similarities in terms of their relationships with their parents or their past, and they might come together in order to heal and rejuvenate themselves. This isn’t a relationship that’s plain sailing, the big differences — and the fact that they are both fixed signs with powerful personalities and opinions — mean there are clashes. The key to this relationship being successful is the power of forgiving, forgetting, and also knowing when to agree to disagree. That really is the magic formula for this relationship: agreeing to disagree, and walking away.

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Aquarius and Sagittarius – Moderate to High Compatibility 

These sun signs are both free spirits. They are zodiac signs who have a progressive and often liberal attitude to life. They are free thinkers with extremely independent natures, and therefore they will admire and respect each other. 

They may even gravitate toward each other, saying, “Wow, I found you at last!” These two often feel that they are twin flames — but there are some questions over whether the relationship can last if it becomes a marriage. 

This suits long-distance, cross-cultural, and same-sex relationships because both like to rebel and have their own take on life. Sagittarius enjoy the fact that Aquarius are thinkers — quite intellectual and smart. Aquarius loves the fact that Sagittarius discuss a wide range of topics, have a huge lot of interests, and are probably worldly-wise and well-travelled. 

Over time, however, Aquarius cannot ever begin to understand Sagittarius emotionally — they can’t unlock those deep, buried secrets. Plus Sagittarius just doesn’t give Aquarius the intensity and that feeling of being totally accepted and cherished that they desire.

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Aquarius and Capricorn – Moderate to High Compatibility 

Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, Saturn is the co-ruler of Aquarius, but Aquarius is also ruled by Uranus and that little spark can help this relationship get going. There can be a lot of curiosity and sex appeal between them, which means they can hit it off at a party, event, or when fate throws them together. Yes, fate is important in this relationship. They may well be soulmates — people who don’t expect to meet or are surprised that they like each other, but somehow fall head over heels in love and find the relationship oddly fulfilling. 

This relationship can be a bit of an odd couple because both have quirks and eccentricities. Both are occasionally aloof and can have their hang-ups to a degree. Both lack social confidence, and yet both really want to be liked, admired, successful, and appreciated. 

There is a lot in common, and they need to acknowledge that, but the big challenge for this relationship is: can they give what the other truly wants to receive in terms of love? Can Capricorn provide the momentum, the drama, the creativity, and the romance that Aquarius wants? And, as Capricorn is romantic, can Aquarius be a nurturing, compassionate partner? Capricorn can indeed and Aquarius can be very tolerant and compassionate, and that is why this relationship has a chance of working. 

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Aquarius and Aquarius – Moderate to Low Compatibility

Despite this being a tricky match, which is sometimes a little volatile and will often have periods where they are estranged or not talking to each other, it can actually be long-lasting. 

In spite of the differences and the fact that they don’t always yield to each other or compromise, they still want the relationship to keep going. There’s something a little magical here, where both Aquarians feel that it’s worth saving, even if there are times when it’s cold and when they both feel a little undernourished in the relationship. 

The challenge for this relationship is for them both to really support each other and to keep generating positivity and moving forward. The relationship can become a little sedentary or a confused occasionally, with both wondering where they’re at and what’s happening. So, this relationship can lack direction, and that needs to be addressed. 

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Aquarius and Pisces – Moderate to High Compatibility 

This is a match which is fairly common in real life and can be successful. Aquarius is ruled by Uranus, and Pisces is ruled by Neptune. Both have a slightly unorthodox approach to life. They are both star signs that like to detach and escape; they are not as plugged into reality and materialism as many of the other signs. Therefore, often together, they can pursue things—be it spirituality, travel, social causes, or humanitarian causes—that inspire them at a higher level. 

Both of them deeply want their life to be meaningful and want a higher purpose to guide them. Sometimes in their journey together, they find many commonalities that are deeply rewarding for them. 

However, they are also both people who have complex personalities, and some of those complexities can involve behavior that is a little obsessive, perhaps addictive, or even avoidant. When they come together, these tendencies can be magnified. So they both have to be alert to the insecurities and sometimes the victim complexes they carry, to ensure these don’t get amplified when they are together. 

They need to focus on healing and moving forward together rather than indulging in negativity. 

As a whole, this can be a deeply spiritual and rewarding relationship and also one where they are able to create a lot of good value for others around them. They are a couple that gives a lot back. 

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Tips on Dating an Aquarius

Dating an Aquarius can be very successful if you know a few secrets. First of all, be entertaining and interesting. You don’t want to be bland, and you don’t want to seem too regimented or closed-minded. To be successful dating an Aquarius, you want to present as a knowledgeable person who can pique their interest and keep them coming back for more. 

You also want to be a little mysterious. They love things that are esoteric and exotic, so they are far more attracted to people who seem original, perhaps very artistic, ingenious, and particularly creative or thoughtful. If you have a unique talent, you really want to be showing it off and telling Aquarius all about it. 

You need to make them feel good about themselves, take an interest in their hopes and dreams, and encourage them to reach for the stars. Show your nurturing side. They can be deeply hurt if you don’t care about their feelings and struggles. 

Aquarians don’t wear their heart on their sleeve, but that doesn’t mean they don’t have a heart. So, understand that their heart is in there, and sometimes they give you these small cries for help that you may not perceive so be alert. Don’t be a selfish know-it-all and try to impress them through looks or material things because that just won’t work. They are interested in knowing who you are at heart and what kind of substance you have in your character. 

Be affectionate, show your flair, and always communicate enthusiastically, because communication is so important to Aquarius. When you have differences, agree to disagree. You must show tolerance for different points of view. 

Wrapping Up 

The best matches with Aquarius are Leo, Scorpio, and Taurus as these conjure a kinda magic. These matches are perfect for stability and long-lasting relationships. Their personalities are naturally attracted, and they can learn from each other. However, these relationships can sometimes be contentious because they tend to be stubborn signs who often see things in a very black-and-white way. These problems can be worked through as there’s a substantial desire compelling them to stay together. 

In terms of the air signs, Gemini is the best match, then Libra, but less so Aquarius. Often these relationships are not conducive to family life or settling down early in life. They can perhaps be better as long-distance or later-life relationships. Aquarius struggles with Virgo and Cancer, but these are by no means bad matches. Very often, they can be soulmate relationships simply because they both have so much to teach each other. If they commit to working on understanding and opening up, they can be very healing relationships. 

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