Cancer Compatibility

Cancer is ruled by the Moon, in addition, it is a water sign and a feminine sign. This means Cancer is highly responsive emotionally, a very perceptive sign who’s good at reading the atmosphere, picking up on the unseen, and being intuitive. It is an emotional zodiac that seeks high levels of attachment and deep layers of compatibility in relationships. Cancer is also a cardinal sign, which means there’s an assertive, ambitious streak in Cancer, an ability to understand business, and the desire for security and prosperity. As Cancer likes to set down roots and is a sign associated with home and strong family bonds, they are serious about relationships. 

In astrology, compatibility is all about how signs interact with each other, the positive and negative traits that they stimulate in each other, whether there’s a high level of communication, cohesion in terms of love language, or whether it’s just all about chemistry and sparks flying with a lot of bridges to be built in between. 

As a water sign, Cancer will gravitate to the other water signs: Pisces, Scorpio and fellow Cancer, as they recognise the emotional depth, the complicated character, the potential for romance and intensity, and the fact that those signs are creative lovers who take the whole sphere of romance seriously. Cancer are also drawn to water signs because they are kind, sensitive and intuitive, and there’s this unspoken understanding that defies words. However, Cancer also gets on very well with the other cardinal signs like Aries, Capricorn and Libra, because of the hardworking, go-getting nature of those signs. Cancer wants to achieve in life, they desire to move forward, and therefore they are quite at home with signs that are also active about pursuing opportunities and developing their potentials. 

As always, astrology compatibility is a complex art of interpreting different elements. The Sun sign is the beginning, but what’s also important is moon signs to understand family values and emotional compatibility, the interplay of Venus signs to understand how the couple shows and expresses affection and values each other, and Mars signs for the energy and excitement that drives the sexual side of the relationship. The ascendant is also important to see whether each horoscope chart is attracted to the personality and looks of the other. 

Cancer Traits in Love and Relationships 

Cancer has a strong need for stability and security through love. Cancer doesn’t want to waste their time on pointless encounters. When they go into a relationship, it is with a certain degree of seriousness and caution. Cancer has an adventurous nature, but in love they are fairly conservative. They take a long time to open up, they don’t really want a new lover to know a lot about them initially, and they can be quite enigmatic. They are more likely to be good listeners and to want to find out as much about a new partner as possible, rather than revealing their hand, and in that way in dating they can be poker players.

Cancerians can be quite chatty, but it’ll take them longer to communicate about emotional matters, and sometimes they can be quite opaque and may go round the point. Cancer’s approach to life is less direct; they like to go on hunches, on intuition, and they will feel a date out in a relationship. Often they’re looking for signs like eye contact, body language and mirroring far more than what is actually said, as communication for Cancer is much more about the psychic connection than words themselves. 

Cancer’s strength in relationships is that they bring a lot to the table. They have nurturing, loving, warm personalities, and they will show a great desire to get to know a person and find out what their needs are and how they can cater to them. Cancerians are very proactive in love; they see love and relationships as a very important facet of life, and they’re looking to invest in someone and to create the relationship of their dreams. 

Cancer are dreamers in love. They are somewhat idealistic, and sometimes they do wear their heart on their sleeve and end up getting hurt. One of their weaknesses is they can sometimes be less objective in love, and they can fall for people who perhaps take advantage of their distinctly kind and receptive nature. Cancerians need to learn to have strong boundaries in love, and also create a powerful direction, because sometimes they fail to truly set proper boundaries in love, and that can lead to relationships becoming rather toxic. 

Cancer is in it for the long haul, and their seriousness about love means that they sometimes take things to heart. Cancer has to learn to take the rough with the smooth, because all relationships have their ups and downs. Cancerians certainly need time alone to process their emotions as they can become burnt out in a relationship that’s too demanding. 

Most Compatible Zodiac Signs with Cancer 

Cancer and Capricorn

Cancer is most compatible with Capricorn. There’s a certain reserve and seriousness about their love that means these two are immediately reassured by each other’s company, knowing that neither is taking the other for granted or wanting to rush off in any risky directions. Cancer and Capricorn are in it for the long haul. They take a long-term view of love, and they both really want a settled family life with children and prosperity, so there’s a lot of cohesion in terms of values and desire for the future. 

The relationship can be off to a rather slow start because both are a little bit indirect and cautious. However, what’s great is that because Capricorn are not the most communicative sign when it comes to emotions, it’s wonderful that Cancer truly understands them and is able to pick up on the subtleties. Capricorns are hard workers who always put in effort in the relationship, which is much appreciated by Cancer. They nurture and support each other and provide a strong basis for understanding in this cosmic match.

Cancer and Libra. 

This is a powerful astrology match because Cancer and Libra are both cardinal signs. Libra, being a Venus-ruled sign, is a partner who seeks harmony, who’s quite conciliatory, and conflict-avoiding. 

Cancer, as a Moon sign, enjoys a relationship where pleasures are shared, where there’s togetherness and a lot of emotional stability. Libra is a strong character; they have a very definite personality and are also fairly strong-willed. This is very reassuring, and Cancer loves the fact that Libra works hard, but is a creative and loving sign. 

Both of them like to be in relationships, and they give of their best when they have a partner to advise, share feedback with, and to inspire. Importantly, they don’t limit each other’s possibilities. 

This is a strong relationship with great communication, mutual reassurance, acceptance of each other’s personality, and appreciation — but also freedom. 

Cancer and Aries

Now this is a good partnership. There are a few problems, however, because Aries tend to be more outspoken, and often they speak without thinking, which is always a risk because Cancer has sensitive feelings and can easily be hurt. 

There’s also a slight issue around the fact that Cancer is rather mysterious and don’t always express their exact needs in a way that Aries can understand. However, there’s a great deal of interest here. Cancer loves the fact that Aries are very forthright and very, very positive. It gives them confidence and it’s great for Cancer to be with Aries because life is exciting and full. 

Aries have a very tender side and they often feel misunderstood. Aries identify with a more proactive side of life, but their emotional needs are often underdeveloped. Cancer, however, can understand where Aries are truly coming from, what they need, and can give it to them. 

Cancer and Sagittarius

Now this is an unusual match because these zodiac signs are quite different. Cancer is family orientated, seeks stability, and is quite cautious, especially with money. Sagittarius can be gregarious, spendthrift, and a little rebellious. But Jupiter is exalted in Cancer, which means that the more subtle, vulnerable, and needy parts of Sagittarius find consolation and solace within Cancer. Somehow, together these signs have a powerful chemistry and a strong sexual bond. In

the intimate arena they are able to really open up to each other and express a wealth of feelings and experiences that they couldn’t express to anyone else. 

There’s so much healing available in this relationship. Plus, because they are so different, they can help each other explore facets of life that would never have been available had they not hooked up. It’s also noteworthy that both are conscientious and really want to help and do nice things for each other. Both these sun signs have a sort of rescuer complex, where they kind of want to be each other’s savior and healer — and it’s rather charming. 

Least compatible signs with Cancer 

Taurus and Cancer 

You might be surprised to hear that Taurus and Cancer are not that compatible as a cosmic match, which is curious because the Moon, the ruler of Cancer, is actually exalted in Taurus. However, there is something about this pairing that, despite the initial promise, enjoyment and friendship between these two, can run aground. 

The bone of contention with this particular star sign mix is that both are often too conflict-avoiding, too long-suffering, and they can build up resentment, bear grudges, and have long memories that don’t allow them to let go of issues.This is why this partnership can fail. 

It can succeed if both have a fairly outgoing, positive outlook and things are going well, but when things are going badly and there are arguments when cruel things get said, both will struggle to forgive and forget. 

Resentments can linger and fester, because both of them are inclined to put on a brave face and soldier on, but there’s a lack of grit in dealing with core issues, meaning the relationship becomes undermined. 

Cancer and Scorpio

These are both water signs, so you would think that there would be a fair degree of sympatico between them — and yes, there is. There’s empathy and understanding as initially, they come together and feel immensely understood and validated by each other. However, the Moon is in its detriment in Scorpio, and this means that the more cynical, more explosive, and dramatic edge that many Scorpios have — that sting in the tail — could mean the relationship could end at any time. 

The other problem, which is similar to Taurus and Cancer, is that these signs struggle to forgive and forget. Cancer will have a hard time getting over any moments when Scorpio used that sting, became overly dramatic, exaggerated, and perhaps hurt Cancer’s feelings to the detriment of the relationship. The problem with Cancer and Scorpio is also loss of perspective, making mountains out of molehills, and eventually becoming just too subjective and losing touch with facts as emotions run high. 

Cancer and Aquarius

This match can work, and I have seen it in real life. One of the problems with this match, however, is that their personalities are very different. Aquarius needs a lot of intellectual stimulation and enjoys talking. They like a person who is quite bold, overt, and decisive. What can be detrimental for Aquarius in this match is that Cancer has frequently shifting moods and Aquarius doesn’t like that uncertainty. Aquarius likes to see things logically, while Cancer is an emotional mystery. 

While this combination of signs is intriguing for a while, over time Aquarius can get very insecure, questioning whether Cancer truly loves them for who they are. Aquarius have moments when they are aloof, want to be alone, and are up in their own head — and that’s when Cancer can feel neglected. There are times when Cancer needs someone who will simply sweep them off their feet and provide them with security and a powerful sense of belonging. Sometimes Aquarius doesn’t have the inner security to give Cancer that sense of stability. 

Cancer can perceive Aquarius as perhaps a little lost and vague. They just don’t feel grounded with Aquarius, as Aquarius is always seeking something new, whereas Cancer wants to set down roots. Cancer can be very patriotic, but Aquarius doesn’t have those sorts of allegiances. 

Cancer compatibility with All Zodiac Signs 

Cancer and Aries – High Compatibility 

A powerful emotional connection and great levels of security are achievable. Trust is evident as is respect, and they can build a strong foundation for family life and prosperity. A mutually supportive relationship which is good for personal growth. There can be periods of difficulty and stalemate however. 

There’s a great balance of feminine and masculine energy here, meaning that in the family arena they come together to create a powerful unit that has a foundation of respect. While they can sometimes be frustrated with each other, the relationship is always moving forward.

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Cancer and Taurus – Moderate to low Compatibility 

This is a good match on paper, but in reality, both can be sensitive, defensive, and too eager to cling to resentments. Both Zodiac Signs have long memories and keep circling back to past hurts. The big problem is the inability to let go, which can leave them stuck in the past. Both signs are very nostalgic and feel deeply, which can lead to a sensational romance but also emotional stagnation. 

This works as friends or long distance but as a long term relationship both need to cultivate a less stubborn, forgiving attitude. 

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Cancer and Gemini – Moderate to Low Compatibility 

These astrology signs often gravitate to each other and may have a relationship that feels almost like a spiritual journey and as if the force of fate is pushing them together. Although this is not an easy relationship, through it both will learn different skills and abilities they might not otherwise have developed. 

These Sun signs have traits which make them very different, and sharing intimacy can be a problem. Cancer doesn’t necessarily want to take the risk of opening up to Gemini, and Gemini has some deep-seated issues that Cancer may not appreciate because of Gemini’s external personality. 

If they can work much harder on being totally honest and understanding each other, this relationship can succeed. However, there are always going to be challenges and frustrations, as their way of living life and dealing with issues is very different. Gemini like to just get on with things and distract themselves, while Cancer sometimes likes to wallow and sulk, and this is where they can both get frustrated with each other. 

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Cancer and Cancer – Medium compatibility 

Cancerians will certainly have an immediate rapport. There’s ample sympatico with each other; they feel comfortable, and the relationship can actually proceed quite quickly, with them even wanting to move in together and create a life together. 

One of the drawbacks in this relationship is high levels of emotional subjectivity and the abandonment of reason and logic. They are both likely to fear hurting each other, and they might struggle to cope with each other’s deepest fears and insecurities. While they can achieve more wisdom together, the relationship can sometimes become unnecessarily complicated, as both don’t detach enough to see reason.

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Cancer and Leo – Moderate to Low Compatibility 

Initially, this is a very rewarding relationship. Cancer is drawn to the leadership and warmth of Leo. They share ambition, a desire to achieve, and are both fairly conscientious people with a forthright approach to relationships. Leo enjoys the fact that Cancer is loving, attentive, and nurturing, and they both feel like the relationship has the ability to fulfill them. 

However, fire and water can be problematic. Over time, Leo can feel frustrated, as Cancer can sometimes be overemotional or too cautious. Cancer can often find Leo’s more confident or “showy” qualities and desire for attention a little tedious. They do get on each other’s nerves at times and may need more space than they realize. 

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Cancer and Virgo – Moderate Compatibility 

Here we have two signs who are conscientious, diligent, and who will nurture and protect each other. This match often involves people who are friends, colleagues, or share mutual interests. 

The communication element is usually fairly strong. Cancer likes the fact that Virgo is an honest broker and a constructive provider in the relationship. Virgo feels happy in the company of Cancer, as the atmosphere is congenial and laid back. One thing the couple may lack is sensual pleasure and chemistry. They may not feel that the sex life is entirely satisfying. Although they are generally happy together, they can often doubt each other’s feelings and need to cultivate self-awareness to make this match work. 

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Cancer and Libra – High Compatibility 

Both these signs enjoy being in a relationship, and it is their default position to be either married or committed to someone, which is a wonderful start. They are both actively looking to progress and move their lives forward, meaning they seldom get into ruts. 

They respect each other’s feelings, and resolution of problems is usually quite swift. One challenge is that they often clash over issues related to family and work-life balance. They work hard and play hard, but this can lead to neglecting the relationship and playing the blame game. Otherwise, it is a strong match. 

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Cancer and Scorpio – Moderate to Low Compatibility 

These two signs start off really lighting each other up, enjoying each other’s company, and wanting to spoil each other romantically. Their love languages are compatible, and they are both good with words and generous with their time.

However, over time, there can be bones of contention. Both are rather stubborn. When Scorpio digs in their heels, Cancer plays the injured party and communication deteriorates. Both signs also tend to use the silent treatment, and if passive aggression is taken too far, the relationship can become very contentious. 

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Cancer and Sagittarius – Moderate to High Compatibility 

This is an intriguing connection that can offer a great deal of healing and deeper levels of personal understanding and growth. Each partner is willing to make sacrifices for and help the other. There is generosity of spirit in this relationship and an ability to forgive each other. Sometimes both can be a little impatient, which can lead to arguments, but overall, this relationship can definitely work, especially for couples who are colleagues or share long-term goals. 

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Cancer and Capricorn – High Compatibility 

This is one of the strongest matches. One drawback is that the Moon, which rules Cancer, is in its fall in Capricorn, which can sometimes make Cancer feel less fulfilled or understood. However, Capricorn always works hard and goes the extra mile, which helps overcome these challenges. The couple has a lot in common, including shared projects, family goals, and child-rearing priorities, which keeps them strong together. They are united in purpose and find fulfillment in life together. 

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Cancer and Aquarius – Moderate to Low Compatibility 

This combination can be drawn to each other. There’s chemical attraction and curiosity, making them likely to give dating a try. They may find the relationship rewarding sexually, but communication can be difficult, as Aquarius can be aloof and emotionally unavailable. Cancer’s tendency to be moody and sulk can be confusing for Aquarius. If both make an effort to be honest and emotionally intelligent, the relationship can work, but there are hurdles to overcome, and they need to understand each other psychologically. 

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Cancer and Pisces – Moderate to High Compatibility 

This astrology combination is high on romance, empathy, and mutual acceptance. Both revel in imagination and escapism, which fuels romance. They know how to relax, enjoy peaceful times, and create a safe space for each other. 

The challenges include Cancer feeling frustrated when Pisces is evasive, fails to make plans, or does not create structure and clear boundaries. Pisces may wish Cancer were more expressive affectionately or more pragmatic. Humor and intellectual adventure can help balance this relationship. 

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Tips for dating a Cancer 

The key thing you need to know when you’re dating a Cancer is that the things that are subtle and less obvious really count. 

Cancer is an observant, intuitive sign and it’s very important for you to always understand the signals you are sending through body language and the kind of moods that you are projecting. Cancer will obviously watch what you do, more so than what you say, so it’s so important that if you are feeling off you let them know why, as Cancer sometimes read too much into things. 

It’s very important that you are always honest and strive to create clarity in the relationship. A relationship with Cancer is one that you can’t take for granted, it requires work, a lot of nurturing and always working at productive communication which actually takes the relationship forward. Be a person who shows you care and make sure that cancer feels acknowledged and seen. 

Wrapping up 

For me, the stand out combinations for Cancer are Capricorn, Libra, and Aries. There is also a strong potential for compatibility with Sagittarius and Pisces. More challenging relationships include Virgo, Scorpio, and Taurus. While these signs may seem like natural soulmates due to shared feminine, water, or earth qualities, hidden challenges, stubbornness, or people-pleasing tendencies can create friction. With emotional honesty, vulnerability, and patience, even the more difficult combinations can work. As with all sun sign combinations, this information provides guidance but is not definitive; many other horoscope factors influence relationship outcomes. 

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