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Gemini are the sign of the Twins, so one could, in effect, say there are four people in this relationship — two Jekylls and two Hydes. Gemini are, of course, a sign with a dual nature, which does have some complications when they come together with another Gemini.
Gemini are ruled by Mercury, which is a highly versatile, communicative, and evasive planet. Gemini is an air sign, which is very compatible with Mercury in terms of lust for communication, understanding, and also analysis. Gemini is mutable, and in all these facets of planetary influence, we have a zodiac sign that is highly adaptable and restless.
Gemini are a sign for all seasons, and therefore two Geminis together can perhaps form a yin-and-yang balance where they are able to find someone who acts out their hidden selves. Geminis, of course, have a dual character — the face they show to the world and their more private side — and sometimes being with another Gemini helps them to get more in touch with that shadow side and express it more effectively. So that can be an advantage.
Communication is definitely a big positive. However with two Mercury-ruled air signs together, sometimes there can be a slight frenzy to this relationship that makes it exciting, but it can also fizzle out and may end up making them both feel stressed out.
As Gemini are so changeable and also rather analytical, I feel that this particular combination could make them both paranoid. They are both looking for someone that has more fire, leadership, and is more directed in their life. They want an anchor; they really want a person who can create some boundaries and definition — and often, since they aren’t able to give it to each other, this relationship can veer off the road and end up in the styx.
This match is a lot better if either of them have an Earth Moon, a Moon in a fixed sign, or possibly a fire or fixed rising — Leo would be a good example.
This relationship has a 55% chance of success.
Romantic Compatibility Between Gemini and Gemini
As Gemini are witty, talkative, social people, it’s likely they’re going to find themselves in similar careers and social groups, and they will immediately be drawn to each other’s personality. They automatically understand and validate each other and pique each other’s curiosity.
The Gemini Gemini match is great for romance because that initial spark is definitely there. The relationship won’t become dull or boring, and they will certainly forgive each other for perhaps not always being very attentive or for not devoting all their time to the relationship.
However, a romance between Gemini and Gemini is a little bit haphazard. Sometimes neither of them are ready to fully commit to the romance, and so, as interested as they are, they perhaps don’t spend enough time getting to know each other emotionally — which means the romance doesn’t always develop to its full potential.
This can, of course, work very well for long-distance relationships because these relationships rely heavily on communication, and there’s always the hint of the unknown which keeps them both eager.
The emotional connection between two Geminis is not immediately there — it’s something they have to work on. They will often find so many things to distract themselves and occupy them on their romantic dates that there’s not enough quiet time to bond in silence, to explore through physical affection, mirroring, and body language.
If they can slow everything down, spend time together, and allow each other to develop the trust to speak about fears and secrets, then romance can be a lot more meaningful, poignant, and they may make it to the next level.
Sexual Compatibility Between Two Geminis
Sex isn’t, in fact, the top priority for two Geminis together. Sure, it happens, but it may not be the aspect of life that they both find most pleasurable or satisfying. What they do enjoy in each other is a certain business-like approach to sex — in other words, they’re both happy to do what it takes to make it work, and they won’t make it overcomplicated or get extremely fussy or emotional about it. So, in a way, their sex life can be free from drama.
Gemini often prefer romantic activities far more than sex. If they are going to have good sex, it’s so important that the ambiance is right, i.e. that they’ve spent some time walking around the city at night or seeing a trendy film which has hopefully stimulated a sincere heart-to-heart. Very often, reading together or exchanging views on literature — even erotic literature — can be very stimulating, because once their intellect is piqued, they can actually find their way to desire.
For Gemini, desire starts in the head rather than in the heart. There has to be a feeling of being heard, of being able to freely communicate, and of exploring interesting concepts together to rev them up sexually.
Gemini and Gemini love to be spontaneous. Nothing in the bedroom should be pre-planned. The best evenings are where it all happens once they’ve done something totally random that has interested them. Sex can be best microwaved – not overcooked lol – for two Gemini.
The Friendship Factor between two Gemini
When it comes to being friends, the compatibility is actually below average, and friendship can suffer simply because they are not serious enough about maintaining the intensity of the relationship. Somehow they both tend to FOMO — they’re always looking somewhere else for adventure and inspiration.
Another reason the friendship suffers is because both will have loads of important friendships with other people, and even when they’re together, they might be distracted by their devices, social media, and people on the other side of the world that they can access via their phones.
The problem with their friendship is that they both lack concentration. While they are initially curious about each other and willing to listen, as the relationship gets more stable and they feel they’ve sussed each other out, they’re then more interested in being together physically but perhaps have their minds somewhere else entirely. As much as both are guilty of that, it can lead to disagreements and the inability to make concessions or compromises, because both are too stubborn to give up their previous lifestyle or other friends.
So, the big problem with friendship isn’t communication or understanding — and it’s not that they don’t appreciate each other’s personalities — it’s just that they dilute themselves and often spread their energy in so many directions that the friendship doesn’t feel very satisfying.
Marriage and Long-Term Potential
Gemini and Gemini is not a match you see very often leading to marriage. They may have a long period of living happily together, and out of that period may even come children, but at some point down the line, they are both ready to call it quits.
There aren’t usually fiery arguments between two Geminis, and the relationship often ends very amicably — but why would the relationship end? It’s because they simply drift apart. At the end of the day, the Gemini energy doesn’t satisfy each of them. Both want someone who’s going to sweep them off their feet — perhaps even be a little bit bossy and take control of their lives.
They are both looking for more adventure and a person who has that happy-go-lucky, gregarious confidence that perhaps they lack. While Gemini are socially adept and confident, and while they talk a great game, they are often a little bit insecure inside. There’s something within them that deeply needs to be accepted, to fit in, and to be loved.
What does love really mean to Gemini? It means having warmth, affection, and someone who’s devoted to them — and they simply don’t really get that passion from another Gemini. That’s why the relationship, over time, begins to feel unsatisfying.
So, Gemini can have a happy marriage together, but there’ll always be something missing — and that’s why it doesn’t have the best chance of survival.
Strengths and Challenges
Two Geminis will skip through the initial phases of the relationship. They feel they know a lot about each other and can relax in each other’s company, knowing that they are going to have a good time. There’s a lot of understanding and respect, and initially there can even be euphoria and romance.
Two Geminis know how not to suffocate or crowd each other. Gemini have many friends and interests, and therefore they are less likely to be needy in an overt way. Obviously, underneath, all Geminis are in need of reassurance, but outwardly they are confident, and therefore they are happy to be with each other and to cooperate as they don’t feel suffocated.
This is a pragmatic, logical pair who are likely to sort out their arguments in a reasonable way. They’re both conflict-avoiding, and because they like to cultivate harmony, they are likely to cooperate. They can make great lovers and colleagues because they enjoy talking shop and share a great interest in the work world.
One of the challenges, however, in this relationship is that both want to get closer to the fire but both are scared of getting burnt. It’s very likely that at least one partner will feel undernourished and a little bit lost in the relationship — feeling that they aren’t getting enough attention or nurturing. In fact, both may feel that way. Over time, they can drift apart, looking elsewhere for that nourishment. The feelings cool down, and the relationship becomes harder to maintain.
Gemini have a hidden stubborn side, and if they begin to feel unhappy, they can become quite argumentative. What begins as bickering can soon become more critical and hurtful arguments, bringing a sour tone to the relationship.
Disagreements cannot be avoided, as both have an unstable emotional state, and as they don’t offer each other enough stability, their emotions become increasingly volatile — leading to more unpredictable behaviour from both of them, which makes the relationship feel very chaotic.
Two Geminis together can be too highly strung. There may be a theme where they burn the candle at both ends. Gemini, after all, are known as party animals — sometimes they don’t know when enough is enough. They can create an atmosphere where they both increase each other’s anxiety and together become two highly strung creatures who can’t find a space of calm.
Final Verdict
There’s no doubt that this match is off to an excellent start, and Geminis together always enjoy each other’s company and have a lot of optimism about the relationship going forward. But is that optimism going to be fulfilled? Unless they acknowledge the true nature of their characters, it may not be.
Gemini are often very busy people, they can be workaholics. They’re very engaged in their social life but often don’t pay enough attention to their emotional needs. So, when you get two Geminis together, it tends to magnify what’s lacking in each emotionally, and this can lead to both becoming more anxious, more highly strung, or even more paranoid.
Over time, they don’t adequately reassure each other, and they often don’t spend enough time getting to know each other emotionally or connecting on a spiritual level. So, the key for this cosmic relationship to survive is more time spent exclusively together, with more heart-to-hearts — not just analysing, but truly understanding what each needs to feel secure.
The communication side of this match is excellent. The sexual side is never the most important. Although I’m only giving it a 55% chance of success, if either has a Moon in Cancer or Earth, or one has a rising sign in a cardinal or fixed sign, this relationship can have a much better chance of success.
Any star sign match is, of course, modified greatly by the Ascendant, Moon, and Venus signs — which will give more bearing on affectionate, sexual, and spiritual compatibility.
