Sometimes the snow comes down in June, sometimes the sun goes round the moon.
Is this a mellow, harmonious, romantic connection between two Venus-ruled signs, or is it a moody, melancholy mix with a penchant for self-indulgence? Well, I think this cosmic match actually makes a fascinating study.
Libra and Libra together unite two personalities who have a strong need to be in a relationship, who enjoy falling in love, and who function better as a team. Libra usually want to get together fairly early in life and not spend too much time doing the single thing.
However, Libra are a cardinal sign, they have a lot of self-determination, willpower, and high levels of executive ability. So, we don’t necessarily have two wholeheartedly congenial, cooperative people coming together in a blissful union where they constantly act diplomatically and see each other’s point of view. Rather, we have two determined, often stubborn people who are very ambitious and who often have very strong ideas about things, trying to blend their more assertive traits in a relationship.
Now, because two Libra are both air signs, one of their love languages is communication and that’s a big plus in this relationship. They are both fairly pragmatic people who communicate in a very reasonable, responsible way, who like to make sense of things, and therefore are likely to want to talk through their problems, which is a big plus.
What we also have in their favor is that, being ruled by Venus, they are quite loving and affectionate. They will enjoy spoiling each other and perhaps doing sensual things together like dancing and massages. Gifting is another love language, as they both like to treat and are fairly generous.
Where this zodiac match can suffer is that not only are Librans very indecisive people who struggle to make up their own minds, but they also – despite being symbolized by the scales – suffer a lot of inner turmoil. Their outer balance is often a façade; inside, they often suffer deep levels of conflict. When they come together, that is magnified and that’s why this match only gets a 65% chance of long-term success.
Romantic Compatibility
With two air signs, communication is always going to be an important love language. Venus ruled Libra is very different to Venus ruled Taurus however. As an earth sign, Taurus is far more visceral in their reactions; Libra is much more intellectual. So these are two people that put a lot of thought into romance and love. Libras like to be creative with the way they communicate; they like to have dates which are very enjoyable but also quite luxurious.
Libra and Libra in a relationship seek pleasure, so romance can be a very enjoyable experience. They are very social, they love people, they like doing things as a team, and they are likely to enjoy entertaining in their home or attending events. They’re naturally quite charming, diplomatic, and people-pleasing, and therefore the initial phases of the relationship are very harmonious.
Libra is also fairly ambitious, so there’s nothing boring about this zodiac match or sedentary. However, one of the problems is jealousy. Librans do have a problem with being a little bit possessive and wanting to take ownership of their mate. Therefore, there’s a catch, both of them are very social and have wide circles of friends and male Librans are ladies’ men, so you can see the problem here. They are both going to be a little bit jealous of each other’s friends and the friendships they have outside of the relationship, which can conflict with full understanding.
However, the romance is also powerful from the point of view that they are both creative, thinking people with rich imaginations. They both dream and are always making plans, but often the plans don’t really come together romantically, and a lot of the promise is not actually realized. There are some strange twists of fate that arise in the Libra Libra relationship, meaning the romantic compatibility is more shaky than one would imagine.
Sexual Compatibility
The physical and affectionate side of relationships is very important to Libra, so are the pleasures of the flesh: eating beautiful foods, the sensation of touch, using interesting fabrics in the bedroom, from satins to leather to linens are all very, very important. Foreplay is essential and so is a sentimental kind of romance with beautiful music or something stimulating in terms of watching a film they both like.
However, sometimes there’s confusion – is it lust, or is it love? Initially, it’s more about lust, and it’ll take a long time for true feelings of intimate love to develop between them.
Sometimes there are long phases where they just don’t have sex, and then there are other phases where they can’t get enough. There’s rarely a consistency to their love life.
Both of them have rich imaginations, and they have to remember to indulge that side of them so neither one becomes bored. One partner always has to inject something novel, surprising, or a little bit exciting i.e. something that gets the adrenaline going.
While two Librans can sometimes be a bit lazy and like comfort and familiarity in their sex life, they should not underestimate the value of adrenaline and doing something exciting and daring, not only during foreplay, but during their day-to-day life. An exciting adventure weekend, for example, can help stimulate romance.
So, when things aren’t great in the bedroom, sometimes it’s excitement outside of the bedroom that they need to generate to get the relationship going.
Friendship Between Libra and Libra
Initially, the friendship is strong. However, what both of them would prefer is a more straightforward, direct approach and Libra won’t give that to each other. Libra always hedges their bets; they can fence-sit, and sometimes they dance around the point, which can end up annoying the other.
They also frequently change their minds, having that indecisive streak, and because they’re always striving for balance, they’re in constant doubt about what they should actually do. As a couple, they can get stuck in stalemates when neither really wants to make that courageous step forward. One of them does need to have some Aries in their chart, or a strong Mars, to break the deadlock.
On one hand, they are very good at mirroring each other, which is always very reassuring in a relationship. Their body language is always positive, which creates trust. They have a lot of similar characteristics, and their behavior and graceful approach are aligned.
However, they are in eternal search of something new, and this threatens the stability of their friendship. They can become bored with each other, and the relationship can be broad but not deep. It does suffer from shallowness and some insincerity.
Long-Term Potential and Marriage
One of the drawbacks between two Libras is a lack of direction and the inability to make a decision when the going gets tough. There’s no doubt that Libras are the iron hand in the velvet glove, we’re not talking about wilting daisies who shy away from responsibility, but what we do have in Libra is a zodiac sign who toys too long with different options, who can dither, and who needs a partner who just jumps in the deep end sometimes.
Two Libras together can exacerbate that inner anxiety both have, and they can end up debating endlessly and bouncing ideas off each other without much progress. Sometimes their debates become heated arguments, endlessly wasting energy.
One of the challenges with two Libras together is this stalemate of debate, where the relationship loses momentum and the great promise it has is never fully realized. In some cases, they may even end up holding each other back.
This zodiac match is great if they are able to determine strong boundaries and each has designated roles and responsibilities in the relationship. This cosmic combination necessitates a lot of relationship planning between them. It’s also important for them to have relationship rituals surrounding communication and sex so that no area of life is neglected.
They need to respect each other’s viewpoints and be careful not to have double standards, because sometimes with Libra it’s “Do as I say, not as I do,” and that’s not great for a relationship.
The promising thing about their marriage is that neither likes to be lonely. So, once they’ve been together for a while, they’ll probably tough out the difficult times and make it through, even if it can be quite thorny for a while. Libra are generally fairly forgiving, and they always have that diplomatic gear they can shift into to restore calm and harmony.
Strengths and Weaknesses
This astrology relationship is in constant motion. It’s a relationship between two sociable people who have high ambitions for themselves and who want to enjoy life. Their mutual optimism and good nature ensure that the relationship is generally harmonious, and that a big effort is made to maintain peace and resolve conflicts in a responsible way.
Their love languages are united, meaning that through communication, affection, and the enjoyment of the pleasures of the flesh, they can experience many wonderful things together. They are also a zodiac combination that will make an effort to please each other in the bedroom, although the bedroom arena is one that requires a little bit of extra effort and the injection of some adrenaline, so their love life doesn’t become stagnant. They’ve got to keep seeking that dose of adventure.
They will tend to get to know each other inside out, and that can be very reassuring because Libras don’t really like surprises, they like to know exactly what to expect, so a certain amount of familiarity leads to contentment in this relationship.
One of the downsides, however, is jealousy. Libras can be possessive. Relationships are very important to both of them, and they want to be a strong team. As much as they are both social people and will tolerate a bunch of friendships outside the relationship, this only works up to a point. If one of the Libras begins to feel more vulnerable, they are going to want to start curtailing the other’s social life.
It’s difficult for Libras to consistently accommodate each other’s need for extra-relationship friendships because it dilutes the relationship and that can feel threatening.
Libra can be quite critical and cold. So, during times when there’s heated debate and they feel they’re not getting along, they can begin to drift apart and neglect each other emotionally. They may not give each other the validation that both need.
This is a relationship between two highly functioning, responsible adults who are quite wise, but the emotional side of the relationship is often underdeveloped. That means one may always feel there’s not enough nurturing, particularly the female partner.
There can be a great deal of wasted energy in this star sign match, often there’s too much debate and too much indecision. As Libras often suffer from internal turmoil, they may project that onto each other. Two Libras strive for balance, but they don’t often fully acknowledge the repressed emotional turmoil within them. If that’s not resolved, it will keep being projected onto the other, leading to a potentially stormy relationship.
So, they both need to have better internal conversations and learn to process their emotional dilemmas more honestly, rather than always trying to put on a game face and be reasonable externally.
Final Verdict
This zodiac relationship can be quite powerful. Libras are going to be drawn to each other and it’s easy for them to fall in love and have a magical romance. The communication side of the relationship is very stimulating. There’s a high level of generosity, and this means that sexually and affectionately, the relationship is very rich. It’s also very rewarding in terms of the joyful and wide variety of experiences they can have together.
One of the issues, however, is emotional honesty. Libras are, on the face of it, quite honest, mature, and rational people, but they often have a façade of diplomacy and congeniality. There’s so much to their personality and character that they keep under wraps.
In a relationship, they are going to have to start dealing with their emotional dilemmas and difficulties, or else the relationship will end up being a cauldron of swirling, toxic energies that are never dealt with.
The key for the Libra–Libra relationship to be successful is for them to acknowledge their vulnerabilities, the doubts they have about themselves, and how these might play into jealousy and possessiveness. If they can be mature enough to work on themselves emotionally, this can be an excellent match with more than a 65% chance of success.
However, if they don’t, it can become one where arguments and debates continually sap their energy but get them nowhere because they never look at the underlying issues.
This relationship is much better between a second or third decan Libra. It also works better if one of them has an Aries or Leo Ascendant, or a water Moon — such as Scorpio, Pisces, or Cancer. A Cancer Rising can also help the relationship succeed.
Any star sign match is, of course, modified greatly by the Ascendant, Moon, and Venus signs — which will give more bearing on affectionate, sexual, and spiritual compatibility.
