Sagittarius and Sagittarius

Come on, baby 
We better make a start 
You better make it soon 
Before you break my heart.

Here we have two seekers looking for adventure, excitement, and to find themselves. Sagittarius is the sign of the globe-trotter. Ruled by Jupiter, they are expansive, opportunistic, and positive about life. This is a happy-go-lucky, gregarious zodiac sign who believes life is for living. Sagittarius also have a powerfully independent streak; they love to make their own way in life, live by their own rules, and see every day as a fresh opportunity. 

Sagittarius represents a fire and a mutable sign, because it’s a mutable sign, they are highly adaptable, change-orientated, and are prone to have frequent changes of heart, meaning that life never becomes stagnant or boring and they don’t particularly like routine. 

Sagittarius is also a fire sign, which represents a competitive spirit and a high level of energy and enthusiasm for life. It also represents a personality that is spontaneous, but also one that takes risks and doesn’t always think things through. 

Now, as you can tell, when you get two Sagittarians together in a relationship, what is going to be the glue that sticks them together? They may be like fireworks exploding in different directions. While they are naturally drawn to each other’s bright and bubbly personality, will they really want to settle down together? Or are they just too selfish to make a relationship work? 

How can two commitment-phobic people, which is notoriously a trait of Sagittarius, find time to settle down? This may be a much better relationship for a couple who are in middle age or later in life, because they may have burnt off some of those more energetic traits and sown their wild oats. 

What this relationship can really benefit from is some earth or water placements in terms of ascendant or moon sign, to just cool it all down and help them put down some roots. 

This relationship has a 50% success rate. 

Romantic Compatibility

In romance, Sagittarius wants to be inspired. They also love a chase, so they like to go after other independent people that aren’t too needy or too available. This is why romance can be pretty splendid between two Sagittarians. 

They both require a witty, communicative partner who constantly comes up with new ideas and with whom they always feel that there’s another chapter to read, and the climax is still coming. Sagittarius gets bored pretty quickly, so it’s rather powerful in romance that neither of them are too available and that they both keep each other guessing. 

They benefit from delivering each other spontaneity, but there’s more to it than that ie Sagittarius can be a little bit emotionally vulnerable and insecure, and so it’s great for them to be with a positive, upbeat partner who’s always seeking the best in life and another Sagittarius delivers that. 

They also like to be with other characters who are fairly honest and straightforward because Sagittarius doesn’t like anything too emotionally complicated, and they hate games. So they like that a fellow Sagittarius calls a spade a shovel, because they know where they are. 

So romance can be an exciting experience, but it’s also an emotionally reassuring experience between two Sagittarians because of high levels of honesty, and that is quite notable. Romance is high on excitement but also on honesty, which leads to reassurance, which leads to them being quite affectionate. 

Sexual Compatibility 

Well, one would imagine that two fire signs together are going to be hot and passionate. However, Sagittarius can be a little bit vulnerable when it comes to intimacy, they don’t always like to open up. So, with two Sagittarians together, who’s really going to make the first move? 

Foreplay and affection will go rather well, but when it actually comes to sex, it could end up being mechanical and over in a few seconds. 

This zodiac sign together may be inclined to get involved in microwave sex, something that’s spontaneous, but which happens quite quickly and is over without them really exploring or developing emotional depth. 

So the big challenge between two Sagittarians is to develop deeper trust and to deliver enough empathy and nurturing to each other that both will be willing to totally open up and will begin to reveal themselves emotionally. 

What this couple needs to do to make their sex life better is to encourage the emotional comfort and expression of each other, and that happens through doing a little bit of mothering and nurturing — which is certainly possible. Sagittarius love to give advice, and they do have quite a lot of empathy, so it’s certainly possible if they put their minds to it and know what is required.

Friendship Between Sagittarius and Sagittarius 

This zodiac sign has a lot of fun together. They’re both humorous, and the friendship is activity-rich. They may enjoy attending sporting events, pursuing self-improvement goals, and also fitness goals together. They are not a star sign that likes to sit down and relax, they like to be busy, as they feel life is for living. 

Both of them tend to suffer from FOMO, which means they’re always looking for something new to pique their interest and to challenge themselves with. Now, the problem with the friendship is it’s kind of broad, but it’s not necessarily deep. Often there’s so much activity and such a whirlwind of challenges that they don’t spend enough time being good listeners. 

Both of them lack the ability to sit still and listen. They like to finish each other’s sentences, they like to presume what the other is thinking without trying to find out, and they often make too many assumptions. This means that neither fully feels seen in the relationship. 

They may always feel that there’s something more important than their friendship happening, and thus it doesn’t develop. So, what they need to develop a more fulfilling friendship is relationship rituals revolving around quality communication, not just banter. 

Another thing that may ruin the friendship is high levels of competitiveness. They both have to win, and they both need to be right and sometimes this is not conducive to harmony in relationships. It can cause a lot of friction, meaning the friendship side is damaged. 

Married and Long-Term Potential Between Sagittarius and Sagittarius 

Will this pair be ships that pass in the night? Could this be a fantastic platonic friendship, or even friends with benefits, that neither feels able to take to the next level? It’s very possible that when two Sagittarians meet when they are younger, there are going to be too many distractions for an emotional bond to develop that will lead to them both wanting to commit. 

This zodiac sign often wants to travel and explore the world, and they can be quite selfish. They are very self-directive and want their life to be as meaningful as possible, but relationships are about compromise and the willingness to settle down, and you don’t necessarily have that freedom in a marriage, which is very difficult for Sagittarius to accept. 

Now, if they both carry on with their careers and don’t have children, the relationship can potentially stay strong. However, if one of them’s at home with the children, that FOMO becomes very strong, and they can become quite angry and restless. That’s why this relationship works better if both have already had a chance to tick many of the boxes that they want to achieve in life and are then able to relax and enjoy a family life. 

Now, Sagittarians love children and will want a family, they’ll want the home of their dreams as well. They’re likely to be very, very ambitious as a couple, but they’ve got to be so careful that both still have independence and a chance to fully express their need to explore and discover. So, it takes a very open-minded, tolerant approach to navigate this star match relationship. 

If they can remember to nurture each other, to increase the emotional depth, and to make sure that the relationship doesn’t leave either feeling stuck, it can work. However, in many cases, this relationship drifts apart before it even gets to that stage. 

It does require one or both of them to have an Earth moon, and a Cancer or Libra rising can also help this relationship reach long-term potential. 

Strengths and Weaknesses of the Relationship 

One of the great strengths in this zodiac match is high levels of communication, banter, and the ability to inspire and excite each other. Both of them have a positive, vibrant approach to life, and therefore they feed into each other’s energy and anything seems possible. 

They’re both rather tolerant and broad-minded, which means all different sorts of relationships can work with two Sagittarians — from long-distance relationships to age-gap or same-sex relationships — because these represent all the sorts of challenges they absolutely love. They are able to inspire each other and have beneficial conversations, and since they are both forgiving, even arguments are quickly resolved. 

They tend to have similar hobbies and interests, both are competitive, outdoorsy, and love nature and animals. There are ample things for them to enjoy together. Being a fairly social star sign, they love entertaining, but they are also very independent-minded, and that’s what they love about each other. Neither is too needy or clingy, and both are happy to go their own way and do their own thing. 

On the downside, two commitment-phobes together who both have a fear of being tied down are always going to struggle to make a commitment. They are not very good at compromising, and they often fail to communicate properly about more complex matters. They’re great at chatting, but when it comes to talking about emotions, finances, or anything more contentious, they both tend to just avoid and procrastinate, which can mean the relationship just can’t function. 

They’re both risk-takers, so this zodiac match really needs one of them to have an Earth moon for a more grounded, reasonable response, because sometimes both of them have unrealistic expectations – both of the relationship, of their opportunities, and of their finances.

They may be a chaotic couple when it comes to organising money, and they can easily spend more than they make. Although being very optimistic, they’ll always find a new opportunity to rake in some more cash. 

This couple is not very detail-orientated, and that means that parts of the relationship will always be neglected. They’re very future-orientated, but sometimes they fail to process their emotions. 

They may be sexually compatible in terms of a lot of fiery energy, but they need to spend more time trying to understand each other on a deeper emotional level and showing more nurturing care. It’s quite easy for Sagittarius to be empathetic, they can do that, but they’re not deeply nurturing because they don’t have the patience, and that’s what they have to work on. 

Final Verdict 

There’s no reason this can’t be a successful Sun sign match if both pay attention to nurturing stronger, more in-depth communication and developing more responsibility in taking care of details. 

This is certainly a zodiac relationship that has high levels of excitement, they are hardly likely to get stuck in a rut. Things won’t become boring, and their lives together should involve endless possibilities. 

However, sometimes they grow apart, there are simply too many other distractions, and they fail to fully appreciate what they have. Sagittarians often make assumptions about each other, and when one is feeling blue or down, the other may not even notice, and in that way, one or the other can feel a little uncared for or neglected. That is why this astrology combination has a 50% success rate. 

They both need to devote more time to finding out what’s going on in each other’s mind: where they’re at, and what they want. They also have to develop the ability to be better listeners. 

However, this is a happy-go-lucky couple that will enjoy both social activities and going off on their own to do their own thing. The biggest danger is drifting apart or feeling disconnected. 

If one becomes a stay-at-home mom and the other is still out and their life hasn’t changed, this is a major issue and the male Sagittarius is going to have to stay home and do some babysitting so the female can still have her life as well. 

This works well if one is a third-decan Sagittarius.

Any star sign match is, of course, modified greatly by the Ascendant, Moon, and Venus signs — which will give more bearing on affectionate, sexual, and spiritual compatibility.