Scorpio and Scorpio

The spy who loved me.

When I ponder love with Scorpio and another Scorpio, I think of Niagara Falls, an enormous body of water and a powerful waterfall cascading down with all its majesty and power. I also think of a volcano that can be dormant for many decades or centuries, but which can suddenly erupt, spewing forth ash and lava and simply destroying all in its path. 

What I am saying is: Scorpio with Scorpio together are a force of nature, and this is likely to be a partnership that has no real comparison. Scorpio is known as the sexy sign of the zodiac; its ruler, Pluto, is renowned as the most mysterious, possibly destructive, but also transformative planet. Then we have the fact that, as a water sign, Scorpio is emotional, intuitive, and has deep reserves of inner strength. 

As a fixed star sign, Scorpio are very determined, often stubborn, and looking to form stable relationships. Scorpio is also known as the loner of the zodiac, they are fairly content single and thus they have the luxury of very high standards; they won’t settle for just anyone. They are perfectionists, they are exacting, and they can be very demanding in love. Therefore, they will wait for the right person, or they will perhaps fall in love at first sight and be overcome with emotions which lead them into a relationship. 

What I can say for sure, is that two Scorpios together are going to have an intriguing relationship that’s deep, and which will experience many fated twists and turns. but it’s unlikely to be boring. 

Is this a good match astrologically, you ask? It can be an incredibly successful match, but it can also be a bit of a roller coaster. Sometimes, it can end very acrimoniously and could be described as a love–hate dynamic, because Scorpio is all-or-nothing in nature. 

This relationship has about a 75% chance of being successful. 

Romantic Compatibility 

Scorpio are romantic, but not perhaps classical romantics. They are a fairly impatient star sign actually, so they prefer dates that are meaningful, active, or that hold a purpose. They tend to become a little bored by traditional romance, and they certainly don’t respond to flattery or merely material displays of affection. With Scorpio, you have to say it and mean it. 

So, when you get two Scorpios together, they are likely to know that, to impress each other, they have to go the extra mile and do something a little bit extraordinary. Thus, if they’re really interested in each other, you can be sure that they’ll both put in effort, and the romance will be rather intriguing. 

Scorpios aren’t known as party animals or excessively social characters, so often their romance involves getting to know each other better through quality time spent talking or teaming up to do something really important together, because, as I say, they like to be purposeful. Sometimes romance is about achieving something together. 

Scorpio loves depth in a relationship. They want to be able to reveal themselves and, while Scorpio has a self protective side, once they begin to fall in love, they really want to be honest and open up. With another Scorpio, they will feel that safety, because each Scorpio respects the other’s deep need for privacy and, because they’re both secretive by nature, they will also respect that reticence about exposure in each other. 

It’s likely that they will fall in love at a very young age, even as teenagers, and spend a lifetime together. Or, they might eventually find each other in middle age or later life and experience a romance that is almost as good as they could have had when they were younger. 

Two Scorpios together will always validate and empower each other, and that is what makes their romance truly stunning. Their love languages revolve around being curious, giving and passionate, but it’s very important that they both enter the relationship with an open mind and are willing to accept each other’s eccentricities. 

Sexual Compatibility 

Now, Scorpios have a reputation for having a lot of sex appeal. They are a charismatic zodiac sign and there’s a lot of mystery about them, which is intriguing for the other 11 star signs. However, when they’re together, they feel they can drop their mask and be a little more down-to-earth. So, a lot of that magical mystery doesn’t necessarily exist between two Scorpios, but what fuels their sex life is curiosity and deep layers of understanding. 

They can be fairly adventurous, like to try new things, and are willing to have a very open mind about the possibilities of their sex life. These Sun sign twins don’t necessarily want to do anything very extreme, but they do want to push a few boundaries and make their own rules, because two Scorpios together aren’t bound by convention and they kind of like to go where no other has gone before. 

What makes the sex life of this zodiac match quite powerful, however, is that sometimes they enter the relationship with a kind of “you and me against the world” mentality, where they feel that each other are the only people they can truly trust. This mark of exclusivity actually makes their sex life more poignant and meaningful, because they both are each other’s world.

Friendship Between Scorpio and Scorpio 

When they agree, they agree 100%, but when they disagree, it can feel like the end of the world. The problem with a Scorpio–Scorpio love match is that there can be a lack of moderation. They often don’t make allowances for the times when they simply aren’t going to be able to have a consensus, or when they’re going to be on different sides of the fence. 

They both need a lot of validation, and they both want to know that their partner is going to support them hook, line, and sinker and that’s not always possible in real life. So, during the times when they are having disagreements or are on different sides of an argument, it has to be handled very, very carefully. In fact, maybe they should just stay away from those issues, as much as possible, because this relationship is always on a knife’s edge. 

Scorpio isn’t the most forgiving zodiac sign, and when things go wrong, they can spin out of control very quickly because two Scorpio combined are often too emotional and irrational, and neither knows when to step back. The key advice when it comes to maintaining their friendship is: when in a hole, stop digging, but sometimes that’s not what they want to do. 

It’s also vital that they acknowledge they can both be a little bit egotistical and stubborn, and stubbornness gets no one anywhere. So, the friendship is either all guns blazing or swords drawn, and they have to manage their emotions more carefully and just be a little bit more measured in their responses. 

Long-Term Potential and Marriage 

Two Scorpios together are indeed likely to get married. They may marry very young, or they may marry later in life, but once they fall in love, they are going to want to take that relationship into a marriage or some form of formal commitment, like moving in together. When they start to enjoy each other’s company, they’ll want to spend more and more time together. 

Now, this is not a couple that readily embraces freedom when it comes to each other. They tend to need to possess and control each other. They have to learn that at times, the relationship is a pressure cooker, and both need to go off with other friends or family members to experience new things outside the relationship. While the relationship can be committed, loyal, and deeply meaningful, it can often get a little stale, and they can both begin to become obsessive about each other. 

They may even become obsessively worried about each other’s health or safety, and together they can become a little neurotic. That’s why it’s very important that there are other strong relationships both of them can rely on outside the marriage. It’s important for them to have a good circle of friends and family whom they can entertain, trust with their thoughts, get advice from and who can dilute some of that intense energy, because two Scorpios in a relationship tend to become quite dramatic.

This zodiac match does need to develop an understanding that there will, inevitably, be some heated arguments at times. Scorpios don’t like to back down; they tend to have very firm, fixed opinions on things. As I said earlier, they either agree, and it feels fabulous, or when they disagree, it can get a little fraught and febrile. 

These two need to learn to communicate by putting their egos on the shelf and taking a more logical approach. Sometimes, they both just need to step back, allow each other to cool down, and resume. Scorpio is a star sign for whom the phrase “count to ten” should actually be “count to ten days,” because sometimes the cooling-off period is quite long. 

Although there can be some friction, there’s also an enormous amount of love. There’s a song that goes, “Too much love will kill you,” and it’s true, sometimes when we love too deeply, we hurt too deeply, and we end up making the wrong decisions because we’re too closely involved. Taking a step back is key for this zodiac match to retain a perspective. 

Strengths and Challenges of the Relationship 

Loyalty, commitment, and deep levels of love and understanding are some of the key aspects of this star sign match. They have each other’s backs, they think the world of each other, and the relationship should be steadfast. 

They can be a formidable match, ideal for couples in business or even in politics, who are constantly up against challenges. These are a cosmic pair who enjoy taking on hurdles, and they might actually choose a lifestyle that others would find harrowing, because they simply enjoy being on the edge. It’s in their personality to push themselves to extremes to discover the extent of their nature. 

Scorpio with Scorpio can be affectionate and, in intimacy, playful, experimental, and their sex life can actually be a lot of fun. They are a couple who are able to be at their most relaxed when they are at home together, away from the world. Sometimes they like to keep other people at arm’s length, but they have a way of feeling totally protected with each other and that is when their more light-hearted, fun personality comes to the fore. 

This can be a stressful relationship. Scorpios are perfectionists, who are hardworking, have an intense emotional makeup, and are also very demanding of themselves and others. They can be workaholics, and when they are emotionally involved in something, they leave it all on the field. 

This relationship between two Scorpios can sometimes be exhausting, and they may need extended periods where they relax, chill out, and do something where they can totally detach. Detachment is really important.

Two Scorpios together tend to be possessive and mutually controlling, and this could even lead to the relationship being a bit codependent. It’s very important that they remember to cultivate important relationships outside the relationship, and that both of them allow each other to do so, because it’s a huge benefit and can help sustain the relationship during periods of stress. 

Both of them can get addicted to the drama that a certain amount of possessiveness and control brings, but over time it can wear on their nerves, and they both need to become a little more laid-back. 

One of the dangers in this relationship is that they can push each other to extremes. They are both inclined to take an emotionally charged view of things, and when they are in a heightened state of emotion, they tend not to be very reasonable or logical. They often have a fight-or-flight mentality; they can be defensive and touchy, so two Scorpios together can sometimes feel like they’re treading on eggshells. 

Final Verdict 

This match is a little bit like one of those SpaceX rockets, they either aim for the stars, or they explode very quickly after launch. Two Scorpios will either hit it off right away and be lifelong lovers and companions who are totally loyal and committed to each other, or they will annoy each other very quickly, have an acrimonious fallout, and probably never want to see each other again. 

So, this relationship either works or it doesn’t, and one should get the result quite quickly. When it works, it is likely that they will have a transformative, rewarding relationship, whether it starts early or later in life. 

They love doing things as a team, and as a couple they can actually be a little reclusive, keeping other people at arm’s length, but that can be a bad thing because the relationship is a pressure cooker. They need to acknowledge when they need a break from each other and spend time chilling with people who are more laid-back and possibly have a more objective standpoint. 

They both need to give each other a break, and both need to learn to be forgiving. Scorpios do hold grudges, and they have long memories, but this relationship can do without either of those. People make mistakes, nothing is perfect, and they need to learn to live with that and move on. 

This relationship is more difficult if one of them has a lot of Fire, Gemini, or Sagittarius in their chart, because one can be far more committed to the relationship than the other. The one with the Fire, Gemini, or Sagittarius energy will want a little more freedom, which can be very challenging for the other.

This pair may not necessarily want to have children, but if they do, it can also be a key plank in keeping the relationship together, although custody battles do worry me a little with this combination. 

While this astrology match has a 75% chance of being successful, it is improved if there is a Taurus or a Libra Ascendant. Alternatively, a Capricorn, Libra, or Virgo Moon can help bring more balance and understanding. 

Any star sign match is, of course, modified greatly by the Ascendant, Moon, and Venus signs — which will give more bearing on affectionate, sexual, and spiritual compatibility.