Virgo and Leo

I was standing, you were there — our world collided.

Virgo and Leo are a fascinating astrology mix to examine. It’s not immediately apparent that there’s going to be a great deal of chemistry, attraction, or even a desire to strike up conversation, because most people will see them as being very different. One’s an extrovert, one’s an introvert; one can be selfish, one’s empathetic; one is flamboyant, the other understated. Leo can be a little bit showy, and Virgo is modest. 

So, they sound incredibly different, but to describe them in this way lacks nuance. Leo has a soft heart and a shy side; they’re not necessarily this super-confident showman. In many cases, Leo is trying to find themselves, and Virgo is not always “in the kitchen at parties,” as the song goes, being helpful. Very often, Virgo have a spontaneous, adventurous side to their nature. So we have to get away from the clichés to uncover what’s really good about this relationship. 

Leo is a fixed sign, which matches well with the earth of Virgo, as they are both tenacious, determined signs who are conscientious about love and want their relationships to work. Leo is fire; Virgo is mutable and that’s a promising combination, because the fire initiates, the mutable adapts. The Sun, ruler of Leo, has leadership ability and a lot of confidence. Mercury, ruling Virgo, is highly curious, witty, and very alert. They are both signs who are super observant and have a keen interest in exploring life and that’s why they can make good companions. 

Leo has fire in their belly; as soon as they finish one thing, they want to rush to the next. Virgo, being ruled by Mercury, is similar, they are busy people who always have an agenda, although they are far better at organising than Leo. So Virgo can bring a little more structure to Leo’s sometimes random way of doing things, and Leo can bring a lot more energy into the relationship, which helps the sometimes timid Virgo. 

This relationship has a 70% chance of success. 

Romantic Compatibility 

This cosmic relationship isn’t the most sensational when it comes to romance, in fact, it develops rather slowly. These zodiac signs don’t normally circulate in the same friendship circles, but they may come together during a particular phase of their life, when they are exploring a spiritual pursuit, or even through seeking advice. Sometimes it is through the world of finances that they are drawn together. 

They have a healthy admiration and respect for each other. There’s certainly curiosity there, and this can mean they have a desire to get to know each other better. What fuels a little bit of intrigue is these Sun signs are so very different in character: they don’t necessarily tick each other’s boxes, but at the same time, there’s a little bit of excitement generated when their personalities collide. 

In romance, Leo is attracted to fiery, confident characters that take risks and are sometimes larger than life. Leo often needs a character who can fulfill their desire to keep going one better as they’re quite competitive in love. Now, Virgo doesn’t really tick those boxes because Virgo are much more considered in their approach and are not immediately reckless or gung-ho, and this can slow down romance. 

In romance, Virgo are attracted to a very masculine energy. They love the fact that Leo is fairly assertive and sometimes dominant, so for Virgo, romance with Leo is an exciting prospect, even though at times they can be put off by Leo’s apparent arrogance. 

Sexual Compatibility 

The sexual compatibility between these two is based on something spiritual and esoteric. It’s not necessarily based around affection, foreplay, or even the heat of the moment. Usually, if their sex life is going to be good, it’s because there is a deep level of understanding and trust that develops between the two of them. 

Sexually, this relationship has a few issues. Virgo has an enormous amount of energy in the sexual arena and needs a partner who can really keep up, someone who wants to dominate, inspire, and create an adrenaline rush of excitement in the bedroom. When it comes to sex, Leo can be a little bit lazy. What Leo craves in the bedroom is imagination – they need theatrics, fantasy, props, even dressing up and this isn’t really Virgo’s bag. Virgo don’t like to mess around or make too much fuss in the bedroom; they prefer something more straightforward and hot. 

So sexually, these star signs are very different and enjoy rather different styles. However, if they are prepared to learn from each other and put in a bit of effort, they could actually find they enjoy different things than they thought they would. 

Friendship Factor 

Although Leo has a fiery character, they are a fixed sign and therefore fairly cautious and hardworking, which makes them a good match for Virgo, who quite likes to plan ahead. Although fairly adventurous, Virgo don’t like risks, so both Sun signs can create security for each other. They both have a certain perfectionistic streak to their character. 

When it comes to friendship, they have very different worldviews. They don’t always like hanging out with the same sorts of people, and they have different interests and hobbies. That can be a good thing, because once they are married, it’s important that they have space from each other, a chance to explore modes of self-expression which don’t always go down when they are together. 

Often, the fact that they aren’t great as friends or particularly cooperative listeners isn’t a bad thing, they can explore their individual whims outside the marriage, which makes the marriage stronger. 

What can grate on Virgo is Leo’s constant need for attention, approval, and the fact that they often hog the limelight. Leo doesn’t like the fact Virgo can be blunt and quite critical. Virgo doesn’t always keep their opinions to themselves, especially when something has annoyed them, which can also mean that the friendship suffers and they need that bit of extra space. 

Marriage and Long-Term Potential 

If they’ve managed to navigate the dating phase and are still finding enough value in the relationship, then there’s good potential for them to make it formal and go down the aisle. One reason they look towards married life as a great option is that they both have a strong need to have children and a family life. Having children can bond them, because they will take great pride in parenthood and really enjoy the creative process of parenting. 

However, one issue in the long term is their very different rhythms and habits. It’s inevitable that their different ways of life are going to grate against each other. They are a couple that can have a strong bond, but don’t necessarily have to be close. 

Leo will become more attached to Virgo as time goes on, and in turn, Leo will put more effort into the relationship. Sometimes, however, Virgo is the partner that might lose a little bit of interest over time, so it’s something for Leo to bear in mind. Virgo have to make sure they don’t stop investing in the relationship or pay too much attention to work or outside interests. 

Strengths and Challenges in the Relationship 

Despite Leo’s reputation as being a showman and quite a gregarious character, many Leos, if not all, have a more shy, modest side and that’s why they are quite compatible with Virgo. Both zodiac signs have a serious aspect to their nature, and together they can find a happy medium where they are comfortable honestly sharing the more vulnerable aspects of themselves. 

The fire energy and masculine persona of Leo provide much-needed leadership and confidence to the relationship. Virgo loves being with a partner who has a positive, vibrant approach to life, as Virgo can sometimes be self-critical and may lack self-worth.

Leo enjoys performing, in business or career, but they lack organisation. While they have enthusiasm, they often don’t plan well. Virgo can fill that gap, helping Leo to be much more successful, especially in money and business. This is a great partnership for ambitious couples. 

Leo and Virgo are both hard workers, who are caring, and nurturing. Once they have established a rapport and fallen in love, they’ll be prepared to put in effort and make sacrifices. 

If we’re talking about a typical Leo, confident, competitive, eager to hold the floor, the relationship may never get off the ground because Virgo could find that arrogant or self-aggrandising. 

First impressions matter for both these star signs. One problem is that this relationship may seem good online, but when they meet in real life, physical first impressions could disappoint. That’s why, as an online relationship, it doesn’t really work, they have to meet in person from the start. 

Sexually, they have different styles and need to communicate productively about what each other wants. Both fear being disappointed or not living up to expectations, which can lead to anxiety. Communication here is key, they must be totally honest about their sexual needs and preferences and put in effort to fulfill them. 

Final Verdict 

This cosmic relationship gets a rating of 70%, because it’s certainly not one of the easiest matches. It takes effort, and both need to be slightly older and wiser to make the most of it. 

It can work as an online or long-distance relationship, but once they live together, things can be very different or even unworkable. 

They recognise something honest and noble in each other, that’s one of the best aspects of this match. Both have sincere, open hearts, and as long as they can work better at communication, there’s potential for a relationship they’ll both cherish. 

The key for success is embracing differences and learning from each other. On a positive note, they’re unlikely to be competitive because they’re so different and with Leo in the mix, that’s always a plus. 

Leo can be possessive, which goes against Virgo’s grain, but somehow they trust each other. They can be very successful in business and in raising children, so there are many things to look forward to, as long as they communicate about their sex life and understand the need for time apart.

Some aspects of their character will grate, but they can learn to appreciate each other’s eccentricities with some effort. 

Second Decan Leo are best with third decan Virgo, and third decan Virgo are best with Leo. 

Any star sign match is, of course, modified greatly by the Ascendant, Moon, and Venus signs — which will give more bearing on affectionate, sexual, and spiritual compatibility.